In June 2009 I left the States to fulfill a life long dream of doing volunteer work in Africa. I spent my summer doing a volunteer internship in Kayafungo, Kenya, with Think Impact (formerly called Student Movement for Real Change). The summer was spent experiencing every emotion I have ever known, as well as a multitude of new ones; seeing and doing things I could have only dreamed about; itching enough bug bites to cover my body nine times over; and recognizing a new-found humbleness for the blessings in my life – including everything from my family to material things like a toilet and clean, accessible water. It was not until I got home from Kenya that I realized my life had been impacted and touched so deeply, and that I would never be the same again.
While I was in the small rural community of Kayafungo, I saw life in a raw and poverty-stricken form. However, through every crack of hardship and despair, there was hope, love and friendship. I made friends with a woman named Grace, through pure chance, and after only a brief conversation I knew she would be in my heart forever. Through talking with Grace, I learned that she shares a unique bond with her husband, one that is uncommon in her community – a relationship based on trust, love and, most importantly, respect. Grace has the unique opportunity to have a voice and an opinion, and she is aware of her special situation. Together, she and I gathered many women in the community to hold a focus group to discuss health issues facing the women of Kayafungo.
After this meeting, the group realized the power in numbers, and how their voices were united in saying the same thing, “Increase health, help our female youth and raise our voices to be heard.” Inspired, the women – led by Grace – formed the Kayafungo Mungano (United in Swahili) Women’s Group (KMWG). We worked together to create a soap business to begin a flow of revenue to help fund future projects, beginning with building a Women’s Action Center to house their new soap endeavor. The Women’s Action Center is to be a beehive of activity, from serving as a permanent home for the soap business to offering training on female health issues, such as breast and cervical cancer, nutrition, and sanitation, and providing a place of friendship.
Leaving at the end of the summer was surreal. The last two weeks of my stay in Kayafungo were when I met Grace, helped form the women’s group and made lifelong bonds. While I was looking forward to a nice hot shower, I did not want to leave. When I got on the plane home from Kenya, I did not cry tears of sadness for leaving; I smiled to myself, knowing that I ignited a spark in the women of the KMWG and that our journey together was not over – it had only just begun.
I am now a proposed Fellow with Think Impact, and I am raising funds for the Women’s Action Center. The Center will be a safe environment for women to discuss ideas and topics freely and to empower one another to be the change they wish to see within their own lives. Each woman I met has her own unique attributes, and when together, united as a group, these women can change their stars. I know that this idea of changing one’s destiny may sound trite, but as a woman growing up in the United States surrounded by strong-willed, confident, female role models who have made a name for themselves and shown me how I can do anything I set my mind to, I have no doubt that together the women of Kayafungo and I can create sustainable positive change within their community. I am thankful for my opportunity abroad, and hope that others know that even a single person can ignite the light of change within someone else, and that the light can turn into a fire within the community. Our generation needs to reach out to others; we can be the change we want to see in the world.